Venusian Log - A Future PUA’s Seduction Journal

Haha, I’ve got to move to more advanced stuff. This “Would you like to kiss me” in getting old. Somehow, I don’t find it as interesting as asking for blowouts, or proposing random chicks. Sometimes I find myself living in the past, remembering the fun I had this spring and summer with these openers. Oh, those were the times…

Ok, enough with that.

Yesterday, I went out at that stinkin’ bar. Met some friends, drank a beer and then we all went to another club. We eventually find a free table (some buddies were holding it for us). I drink another beer (damit!).

Then I just start walking around the club, asking random chicks for kisses. Again, approaching chicks is so easy! This time, I didn’t feel that intense approach anxiety that I had in the past. It was very low this time.

Great fun. I didn’t get any kiss, just a few cheek kisses, from 8+ chicks. Man I love women.

Persistence is key. They ignored me at first, I moved on. A while later, I was back to them asking if they changed their mind. If not, I would come back again in a 10or so minutes. Eventually, they would give in.

There was one who simply blew me off by ignoring me. One of my AFC friends (I came with him) saw this. He knew her, so he was now acting like he was the man and I was a loser because “a fucked up girl like that” turned her back to me. Fucker, he’ll never understand the point of the whole thing. I feel bad for him. I tried a few times to explain him how things work in this world. He doesn’t want to understand.

What I realized during these “would you like kiss me” sessions is that it’s impossible not to have a big smile and be joyful when approaching women. In the past, I couldn’t understand this idea, thinking that I would have to fake a smile, and I can’t do that. But now that I field tested this, it comes very natural. And it’s a good strategy to back off any potential dangerous situations.

For instance, yesterday, I approached a two girls which I was almost certain that they were with their BFs at the club. But hey, there was a shortage of chicks in the venue, so I had to risk getting my ass kicked. Well, I opened them with my ‘kiss’ line and they looked back at their BFs almost asking them too kick my ass. But they immediately realized that I had this huge smile and I couldn’t possibly be serious. I was just having fun, and they got my vibe and immediately changed their attitude and become friendly and joyful, and blew me out in a sweet way.

Haha, I love the simplicity of this opener. Too bad I almost got my ass kicked because of it yesterday.

So I went yesterday at the junior prom of another high school here in town, and for the first half an hour or so, I don’t do much. A girl opens me and I find out she’s in the same class with some friends of mine. Well, Thanks to her, I manage to sneak another buddy of mine in (the one who did his birthday two days ago).

We drink a beer and he tells me that 2 in 5 girls there must surely know about the_orion (his nickname). So I want to prove him wrong and start asking girls left and right whether they know anything about this guy. Very fun. In total, I don’t know. Somewhere between 10-15. None knew him lol.

After that, we stay a little and have fun amongst ourselves, then I tell him I’ll give him some money if I don’t walk up to girls and ask for a kiss. Cool, so I start asking that. When they would say no, I’d say “At least on the cheek”. Some would give that to me, some would not.

At some point, a guy walks up to me and asks me what I’m trying to do. I tell him I’m asking these girls to kiss me on the cheek. (There are two different words in Romanian for ‘Kiss’ and a ‘Cheek Kiss’). So the guy tells me, “ Some of these girls have boyfriends and may get in trouble. If you would have asked for a ‘cheek kiss’, they would have certainly given you one.”

So, I start asking for cheek kisses so that I don’t come across so direct.

In total, I get about 25-30 cheek kisses. With the ones that didn’t want to kiss me on the spot, I’d come back the them after a few minutes and of course, they eventually kissed me.

I could have gone further with some of these girl, but that wasn’t my purpose. I regret that I don’t remember what was the name of the hottest girls there and that I didn’t get her number. Oh well.

Towards the end, I see a girl giving me a powerful EC so I walk up to her and ask for a kiss. She doesn’t want to so I leave, but her stupid fucked up jealous bf comes after me and grabs me, asking what I want from her. He tells me to apologize to her, or I’m getting my ass kicked. Funny thing is, I didn’t even remember who she was. So I eventually tell her sorry like I don’t really mean it, because the bastard was holding me from behind, and when I left, he slapped me in the back. I would have kicked the shit out of him at that point, but he was with his other buddies so I just left it at that.

Need to get some martial arts training. I’ll do that next year.

Ouch, it kind of hurts to go on Technorati and see that you haven’t updated your blog in 12 days…

Well, I haven’t done what I promised to do. Last week I haven’t approached any chick as far as I remember, but this week things are different.

First of all, I joined M00ney’s bootcamp on mASF. It’s pretty much like the old FS bootcamp. We’ll see how that goes.

But, most important, yesterday I pretty much overcome one of my old fears: Just walking up to a girl and asking for a kiss. Here’s the story:

Yesterday, one of my (AFC) friends was celebrating his birthday, at our usual (stinking) bar. I didn’t really want to go, but, hell; we’ve been friends for so long so I had to. The place turns out to be fairly cool, and I run into the girl I was talking in my junior prom field report. She gives me a bite on the neck and starts taking me pictures. Next I open a chick that I noticed months ago, but didn’t have the balls to talk to her then. And of course, have fun with the rest of the girls I knew.

After a few hours, we (my friends and I) go to another club, which stinks a lot less and has a lot more chicks. Well, I don’t do much until my friends leave home. Only I and Victor (complete AFC, but one who likes to dance) remain. So, I tell him that I would give him some money if I don’t go up a girl and ask her to kiss me.

After a little hesitation, I go to the chick with the biggest breasts in the club and ask her “would you want to kiss me?” Well, she doesn’t, but I broke the ice, so now that I’m an approach machine, I start walking up to random chicks and ask the same stuff. When I would walk up to a group, I’d ask “Which one of you wants to kiss me?”

Chicks are so much fun. After the first or second approach I started asking more questions, like “How well do you know to kiss. From 1 to 10, how good a kisser are you? …so that I know whether I lost something.” Some didn’t know, other said thay didn’t know to kiss at all, and one was so confident that she was a 10+. Some chicks were more fun than others. One was in a cocky and funny mode and I loved taking to her.

It’s been great!

Well, I didn’t get any kiss. But I proved myself once more that approaching chicks is fun and easy.

In total, I thing I approached about 11-12 sets. Very nice!

What I regret is that I drank alcohol. But, maybe that’s the reason I achieved that in the first place. But my goal is to get the skill set to successfully approach and pickup chicks sober. I don’t even like alcohol, but it was my friend’s birthday, so an exception once in a while can’t be that bad.

I will post every field report both on this blog and on mASF. Except this one, because, right now mASF is undergoing a major update and it’s inaccessible, and also, I think the problem in this FR is pretty obvious.

So, I started pretty lame this chapter of my life. Today I went to my high school junior prom. Although the environment was perfect for PU, lots of hot girls there, I pretty much remained at my old AFC habits.

Well, I was having fun a friend there when I see a 3 set, one was taking a photo of the other two. I pull out my phone and go next to that first girl and we take two photos of her friends. (Sorry, I can’t really explain in detail what happened, much less in English). It came very natural and quite funny. They opened easily. We had a little chat, exchanged names. I continued a minute or two after that and went back to my friend.

I used this camera ‘opener’ somewhere else and it was also successful. It’s fun.

In another area of the club, it was quite crowded and you pretty much had to ‘rub’ every chick in order to pass.

That’s where I met another girl. I didn’t really open her (I don’t count rubbing her an opener), she was rather interested in me. We had some fun, I still have her bite marks on my shoulder – what better IOI than that?? Dumbass!

This is where my serious lack of PU kicks in. If I would have done my homework and approached girls for the past two months (I mentioned in the previous post that I didn’t PU any chick during this time ), now I could have laid her in no time. She was pretty on.

Well, one lesson learned here.

Other than that, I didn’t open any chicks, except for some that I had already known before, one way or another.

Summary, used the ‘camera’ and the ‘rubbing’ opener today. Still far from that 20 chicks a week goal. Phathetic!

So here it is, I’m officially starting this thing. Right now I’m starting the three and a half years that will totally change my life and make me a ladies man, a real Alpha Man who can have all the women he desires.

Today is Friday 27^th of October, 2006. It will remain in history as the day it all started.

From now on, I will no longer pass any opportunities with women. I am an approach machine starting now.

The Three Seconds Rule is now my Religion
I have passed a gazillion opportunities with women simply because I didn’t follow this simple rule.
I will try every crazy stuff I can think of or find in the community. Brave experiments.

I am taking the newbie mission.
..With a small variation. Since my schedule this year is very tight (trust me on this one), I can’t do the 4 days a week part. I only have Friday and Saturday to go out clubbing. So, to compensate that, I will approach whenever I’m out of the house, doing whatever. It only takes a minute, so no excuse here.

So, for the beginning, my goal is to approach 20 women a week. I doesn’t even matter if it goes well or not. It doesn’t matter if it’s a 30 seconds interaction or a 2 hour conversation. I will raise that 20 number to 48 where it is supposed to be. But for now I’ll just do 20 sets a week to get my ass back in approach shape. I’ve been a lazy bustard way too long.

And I will get rejected. A LOT! And I love that. Man, as I write this a sort of adrenaline starts flowing inside me. Incredible, just the thought of it gives me an intense emotion. My heart beats so fast. I can’t believe I can be so afraid. That’s what you get if you don’t approach a woman for two months.

I really love when a woman rejects me. It’s so funny. I once did an experiment/mission in which I asked 20 women or so to blow me out. I had the fun of a lifetime.

Other important commitments:
- I will no longer ‘touch myself’ until I’m with a girl. That’s a powerful one, and god damn difficult. It will make me horny like hell, so I’ll always be in a good state to approach women.
- I will keep myself in shape. While I can’t go to gym this year, there’s no excuse for not doing pushups and jogging.

Goals:
- I want to be socially savvy.
- Ultimately, I want to become a Ladies Man, a real Pick Up Artist. I want this with my whole soul. I want to be able to get any women I want, the ones that are of highest quality.

I will adjust this post in the following days.

But now, I’m going out and starting this path by approaching new women.

Here’s Mystery’s original Newbie Mission post. In lesser words, it’s exactly what Cedar explains in his newbie mission post.

Get out there. TRY and fail. Plan it.

Think about WHERE they are.

FIND. Then work tonight on MEET phase. MEET the MEAT (ouch *smile*).

Approach and say Hi. Then talk about how Elvis died his hair black and his hair was naturally blond and how that just seems weird to you.

Then it she doesn’t join in the conversation, say, “well, nice meeting you” and walk off with a smile. No harm done is chatting about Elvis.

NEVER give a line. NEVER show signs of your HITTING on her. Make her guess. If she starts talking, use a small NEG HIT.

This post was written in a period when the Mystery Method was in it’s raw FMAC model (Find Meet Attract Close). Thus the “Meet phase” he mentions. I will later write more about the Current M3 model and the acronyms used.

The newbie mission is open three sets an hour, four hours a night, four nights a week for six weeks. Begin with a 3-5 routine stack of openers, a couple of canned negs and a qualifier.

This allows you twenty minutes per set. And should put 200-300 sets under your belt in a month and a half.

I won’t lie, this is painful. You will fail until you get it. You will vastly increase your social intelligence, build a deep repository of experience in a short period of time, and hone your delivery to perfection.

After this, rotate your routines out and begin developing personal DHVs. Field test these using the skills you’ve learned until you’re getting results comparable to the stock routines.

Congratulations, you’re on your way to full PUA status.

Notes.
1. Using stock routines, negs and qualifiers is essential. You are pretending to be a successful PUA. You are faking it until you make it.
2. Don’t focus on all female sets. Mixed sets are open game. Hell, try some all guy sets and see what happens.
3. You’re not going to close a set during this six weeks. If it happens, congrats, but that’s not your goal. You goal is to learn the process and develop your skills.
4. Stick to bars if possible. Clubs have a very regular crowd, are much more loud, and require youto be higher energy. Bars are easier to talk in, more social by nature and tend to rotate their clientele frequently.
5. If you run out of sets, bounce to another venue.
6. Do NOT run the newbie mission in a closed environment, i.e. your work/school. Someone else’s work or school is fair game.

This was orignally posted by Cedar on the Mystery Method Forum.

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Mystery, the world’s greatest pickup artist, came up with the most important rule of the game: the “3 Seconds Rule”.

It is the simplest and yet the most important rule when it come to approaching a new group of women. If you can’t do the 3 seconds rule, you cannot move further into the pickup.

It is the most effective weapon we have against approach anxiety. If you act in 3 seconds after spotting a women, you don’t have time to think of what could go wrong, what if she won’t like you, what if this, what if that BS.

You’ve got to be reactionary. You see an approachable set, you go in! Cut off your “Wow, she’s beautiful” thoughts and just go talk to those girls.

3 seconds is usually just the right time you need to move close to your target and start delivering your opener.

As Mystery writes in his “Venusian Arts Handbook”, you want to be in a set within three seconds of entering the venue. The first set you see, you open it. You aren’t working only this set, you are working the entire room. Being seen in a set makes you look like a social person, offering you social proof and makes your job of picking up the hottest women in the place easier.

You run your routines, then move to the next set.

Another reason why you want to open within three seconds is because it ads a natural spontaneity to your approach. A woman will sense if you’re working up the courage to approach her, so acting in 3 seconds will avoid that.

NOTE:

Mystery himself says that the approach is the most terrifying part of the pickup. Following the 3 seconds rule will be a daunting task. You will hate it.

But following it is the ONLY way to improve you game and ultimately, being able to have any women you want in your life.

Don’t brake the 3 Seconds Rule. 

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