Venusian Log - A Future PUA’s Seduction Journal

Ok, here’s my situation. I finished highschool, and I got into a good college. All that stressful, all-day studying, is over. All exams are gone. In other worlds, for the next two months I have pretty much nothing else to do.

What I’m doing now is starting an entire self-improvement program to fill my free time. It’ll cover many aspects of my life.

During these two months, here’s what I will take care of:

- Social life. I love socializing. I hate sitting in the house in front of a computer and doing nothing. I feel alive when I’m with other people. Just talking to people makes me feel good. It’s good to have great friends, or making new ones.

- Romantic relationships. This one sucks. I fucked it up so many times by starting and then doing nothing. But I regret nothing. You know what the song says: “It’s the first day of the rest of your life”. There’s no point in regretting what happened even 5 minutes ago. Carpe diem. Well, now’s the time to do something.

- Health. I love saying that I’m perfectly healthy. Nothing can get me. I’ve been to the gym for a week or so a while ago. I’ll get another gym membership these days. I also love jogging, I run a few kilometers several times a week. It’s great to keep fit. I love to swim every time I get a chance. I also do a lot of pushups.

- Culture and mental health. Never mind the labeling; what I’m going to do here is read as many book as possible, on various subjects. Every book that falls into my hand, I must read it. I love intelligent, smart, beautiful women. I’ve go to have some real background, not just some game to keep them.

- Finances. Well, I‘ve got to get some more cash. I’ve go to put in more effort into the business I’m into and in a few months I will pretty much be financially independent and won’t have to work at McDonalds or whatever as a student.

- Adventure. Any chance I will get to visit some place, go somewhere, do something cool, I will take it.

- Learn to play guitar. I know to play a few songs acceptably, but I’ve got a heck load more stuff to learn to become good.

In other words, I will work on being ‘content first’, as Dirty_Idea put it. I want to be naturally attractive.

I’m starting right now. I’m going for a run.

Hey, I’m still here. I haven’t posted much lately, I’ve been a little busy. I see the post below… the thing with the chick I PUd on my birthday didn’t really work out. I PUd some other girls meanwhile. Eventually, I got involved with a pretty cool chick. She loved me, but I kind of ran out of material.. and I did exaggerate with the C&F stuff. The big mistake I did was I let her talk about one of her ex friend/bf/whatever.. she’s confused about that herself. Well, every negative feeling she had about him was transferred to me and the whole shit blew up.

So mark my words, don’t ever let a girl talk her ex BFs. You’re shooting yourself in the foot with that. A C&F way to avoid that is “If you want me to become your therapist, I’m gonna charge you 200$ an hour… and you have to be lying on a sofa”. Make sure you remember this line, ‘cause you never know when you’ll need it.

Anyway, I’m starting ElDiablo’ Bootcamp all over again, with a new set of recruits on Monday. It was really fun last year when ElDiablo himself led it, and that was pretty much the kick in the butt which helped me enjoy the best summer of my life. I launched a call to action on mASF to gather around more willing companions. If you’re interested in doing a bootcamp to get your ass moving, then drop a comment here and you’re in…

I’ll try to post a little more often, but I don’t promise anything.

Man, this is becoming a depression blog, not a seduction blog. I’m fucking it up big big time because I don’t even approach girls anymore.

When I go out, I’m mostly in a bad mood and can’t get myself to approach. And that gets me depressed even more. It’s a fucking vicious circle and I have to stop it somehow.

Today, I went out feeling not too enthusiastic and had a little chat with a friend in a bar that depressed me even more. Interestingly, when I got into a club, my mood immediately changed and I started feeling good. Maybe it was the music, or the fact that the club was full of people.

I didn’t approach any girl though. When I left, I meet another buddy and we go to another club. Man, this club is gold. I don’t think there is another place with more hot chicks than here in this town.

Interestingly, one girl started hitting on me. But I wasn’t ready for that and I fucked it up.

So, next week I’ve got myself a really cool club I have to hit. The girls there will love me.

Hey, happy new year everybody. I should have written some reports earlier, but I’ve been either too busy, too tired or god damn lazy.

On new years I went to an out of town party. It was fantastic. Lots of women. I wan’t too comfortable at first, but then I noticed that the others weren’t very comfortable either. So I pretty much started acting like the party host.

I was teasing girls left and right. I was spitting out all sorts of cocky and funny lines. It was incredible.

I ran a few of Style’s routines on a 10th grade girl. She loved them. I’m definite I could have gotten a makeout with her. But, I hesitate on that and the moment was lost.

I got another one to paint my nails black. I was teasing her all this time, and she started hitting on me adterwards and I almost got a makeout.

Well, there were more interesting things that happened, I don’t feel like writing right now.

The greatest mistake I did was that I got involved in a drinking game. That sucked. We got drunk like shit.

Well, a new year has come. No more alcohol for me in 2007. And fuck stupid AFC friends again. I think I’m going to hang out mostly with girls from now on.

Merry Christmas everybody!

What it’s been… Three weeks since my last report? Man I’ve been lazy. Actually, I’ve got (and still have) lots to study. And frankly, studying and getting to a good college is for me a top priority right now. As much as I’d like to be out in the field everyday practicing Pick Up, my financial future comes first.

BUT! Now it’s winter holiday and I’ve got a heck load more free time, so now I can go out every night. I still have to study during the day, but there’s no more boring school to mess my life up.

So, what I’ve done this holiday so far… Not much actually, but it’s worth telling the story anyway.

On Sunday night, I go with two buddies to a club. Man, every college student in this city came back home for holidays and now the little boring town is jam packed with people. The club we’re in is also at full capacity. I see this and I’m like in paradise. I move around to see who I know and maybe get a table. I meet some friends, talk a little with them. Great fun.

I don’t find a free table though, and the guys I came with are starting to get bored and ask me to leave. How the hell can I leave when I’m sitting on a gold mine like this, with all these hot chicks? DAMN! I eventually leave with these ‘buddies’. I don’t even know why I came out with them.

Fuck man, I’m sick of them screwing up my plans. They don’t really share my enthusiasm for pick up. Every time I’m out with them at a club, they’re like “Man, it’s boring. Let’s go somewhere else”. And of course, when we go somewhere else, they don’t do shit and it’s still boring and I hate it!

So, I hope I learned my lesson for good this time about hanging out with AFC friends. They really drag you down. And they don’t even want to see you succeed (as I wrote in another report). As long as you’re making your friends feel good about their pathetic life, you’re best friends. But as soon as you start evolve and change to a better person, while they continue to do their stuff, man, you’re gonna lose them. Style was right in this issue.

I need to find some friends who are on the same path. I actually have two of them. They were the ones who actually introduced me to pickupguide.com and the fantastic seduction material out there. I’ve been best friends with one of them, but our relationship kind of died off because of one of my AFC friends. It’s a long story, but damn, these fuckers are screwing up my life in every aspect. I really need to get rid of them.

So, while I was hanging out with my AFCs, my good old PUA friends continued to evolve and now they’re god damn PUAs with lots of chicks and living a playboy life. And I’m still struggling at the ‘opening’ part.

Screw them AFCs, I’m not going out with them anymore.

So here it is, I’m officially starting this thing. Right now I’m starting the three and a half years that will totally change my life and make me a ladies man, a real Alpha Man who can have all the women he desires.

Today is Friday 27^th of October, 2006. It will remain in history as the day it all started.

From now on, I will no longer pass any opportunities with women. I am an approach machine starting now.

The Three Seconds Rule is now my Religion
I have passed a gazillion opportunities with women simply because I didn’t follow this simple rule.
I will try every crazy stuff I can think of or find in the community. Brave experiments.

I am taking the newbie mission.
..With a small variation. Since my schedule this year is very tight (trust me on this one), I can’t do the 4 days a week part. I only have Friday and Saturday to go out clubbing. So, to compensate that, I will approach whenever I’m out of the house, doing whatever. It only takes a minute, so no excuse here.

So, for the beginning, my goal is to approach 20 women a week. I doesn’t even matter if it goes well or not. It doesn’t matter if it’s a 30 seconds interaction or a 2 hour conversation. I will raise that 20 number to 48 where it is supposed to be. But for now I’ll just do 20 sets a week to get my ass back in approach shape. I’ve been a lazy bustard way too long.

And I will get rejected. A LOT! And I love that. Man, as I write this a sort of adrenaline starts flowing inside me. Incredible, just the thought of it gives me an intense emotion. My heart beats so fast. I can’t believe I can be so afraid. That’s what you get if you don’t approach a woman for two months.

I really love when a woman rejects me. It’s so funny. I once did an experiment/mission in which I asked 20 women or so to blow me out. I had the fun of a lifetime.

Other important commitments:
- I will no longer ‘touch myself’ until I’m with a girl. That’s a powerful one, and god damn difficult. It will make me horny like hell, so I’ll always be in a good state to approach women.
- I will keep myself in shape. While I can’t go to gym this year, there’s no excuse for not doing pushups and jogging.

Goals:
- I want to be socially savvy.
- Ultimately, I want to become a Ladies Man, a real Pick Up Artist. I want this with my whole soul. I want to be able to get any women I want, the ones that are of highest quality.

I will adjust this post in the following days.

But now, I’m going out and starting this path by approaching new women.

Here’s Mystery’s original Newbie Mission post. In lesser words, it’s exactly what Cedar explains in his newbie mission post.

Get out there. TRY and fail. Plan it.

Think about WHERE they are.

FIND. Then work tonight on MEET phase. MEET the MEAT (ouch *smile*).

Approach and say Hi. Then talk about how Elvis died his hair black and his hair was naturally blond and how that just seems weird to you.

Then it she doesn’t join in the conversation, say, “well, nice meeting you” and walk off with a smile. No harm done is chatting about Elvis.

NEVER give a line. NEVER show signs of your HITTING on her. Make her guess. If she starts talking, use a small NEG HIT.

This post was written in a period when the Mystery Method was in it’s raw FMAC model (Find Meet Attract Close). Thus the “Meet phase” he mentions. I will later write more about the Current M3 model and the acronyms used.

The newbie mission is open three sets an hour, four hours a night, four nights a week for six weeks. Begin with a 3-5 routine stack of openers, a couple of canned negs and a qualifier.

This allows you twenty minutes per set. And should put 200-300 sets under your belt in a month and a half.

I won’t lie, this is painful. You will fail until you get it. You will vastly increase your social intelligence, build a deep repository of experience in a short period of time, and hone your delivery to perfection.

After this, rotate your routines out and begin developing personal DHVs. Field test these using the skills you’ve learned until you’re getting results comparable to the stock routines.

Congratulations, you’re on your way to full PUA status.

Notes.
1. Using stock routines, negs and qualifiers is essential. You are pretending to be a successful PUA. You are faking it until you make it.
2. Don’t focus on all female sets. Mixed sets are open game. Hell, try some all guy sets and see what happens.
3. You’re not going to close a set during this six weeks. If it happens, congrats, but that’s not your goal. You goal is to learn the process and develop your skills.
4. Stick to bars if possible. Clubs have a very regular crowd, are much more loud, and require youto be higher energy. Bars are easier to talk in, more social by nature and tend to rotate their clientele frequently.
5. If you run out of sets, bounce to another venue.
6. Do NOT run the newbie mission in a closed environment, i.e. your work/school. Someone else’s work or school is fair game.

This was orignally posted by Cedar on the Mystery Method Forum.

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Mystery, the world’s greatest pickup artist, came up with the most important rule of the game: the “3 Seconds Rule”.

It is the simplest and yet the most important rule when it come to approaching a new group of women. If you can’t do the 3 seconds rule, you cannot move further into the pickup.

It is the most effective weapon we have against approach anxiety. If you act in 3 seconds after spotting a women, you don’t have time to think of what could go wrong, what if she won’t like you, what if this, what if that BS.

You’ve got to be reactionary. You see an approachable set, you go in! Cut off your “Wow, she’s beautiful” thoughts and just go talk to those girls.

3 seconds is usually just the right time you need to move close to your target and start delivering your opener.

As Mystery writes in his “Venusian Arts Handbook”, you want to be in a set within three seconds of entering the venue. The first set you see, you open it. You aren’t working only this set, you are working the entire room. Being seen in a set makes you look like a social person, offering you social proof and makes your job of picking up the hottest women in the place easier.

You run your routines, then move to the next set.

Another reason why you want to open within three seconds is because it ads a natural spontaneity to your approach. A woman will sense if you’re working up the courage to approach her, so acting in 3 seconds will avoid that.

NOTE:

Mystery himself says that the approach is the most terrifying part of the pickup. Following the 3 seconds rule will be a daunting task. You will hate it.

But following it is the ONLY way to improve you game and ultimately, being able to have any women you want in your life.

Don’t brake the 3 Seconds Rule. 

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