Venusian Log - A Future PUA’s Seduction Journal

Ok, a Year’s gone since the last post on this blog. During this time, not much happened pickup wise for me. i had a short term girlfriend, but she was nowhere near the high standards I am aiming at. Other than that, nada.

Until last week, that is.

I jsut got back to Bucharest for my econd year at college. I found myself a pickup wing and since then we’re roaming the city looking for chicks. Ok, first few days were kind of shitty, we both kind of avoided approaching chicks, because of fear or whatever. I did a few approaches, that actually went really good! I ejected too early, but fuck it, it was just practice.

Yesterday however, the situation was different. I had four drinks with my cousin. after that I meet the wing and we go to the city center in ClubA. I am so full of energy and after a short walk around the club i start Hi-ing girls and then approaching. With my classic “wanna kiss me routine”. i love it, it is so simple and fun and it always gets a no right front.

But I insist a little, tell them i’l come back to them and see if they changed teir minds. i get a few cheek kises. I open about 7 sets like this and then we decide to change the club. Outsite, before we leave, i open a three set. I get two cheek kisses, we stay a little longer, i’m just having fun with them. The wing steps in and we finally end up leaving with them to the other club. We find a table. I run a few o my routines, they all work great. I have to entertain two of the chicks because i don’t want to leave the third to get bored.

we spend an hour or so, during which we dance alittle. I do the ESP and other routines. At some point i run out of routines and theere are a few long silent moments. The wing’s girl dares me to kiss my girl, I try it but she turnes her head each time. She said that she has a boyfriend for 3 years, but she gave me lots of indicators she was ready to cheat on him.

I get he # numbers from all three and after about half and hour we all leave. They go home, we go back to Club A. I go back to my other sets where one of ther girls promised to kiss me. She doesn’t, but i get her # and leave. I called her today and we’re meeting tomorow to see what happens.

I’ll call the others tomorow and see if i can set up a meeting with the one i ws interested in.

That’s about it for now, but I’ll post more reports soon. I’m back in the game and I’m not giving up this time until i finally get it right.

That relationship fucked me up a little. Today I felt like shit, so I went out with an old friend, chatted a little in a bar. Then we head to the busiest club in the town. I eventually get a table and start doing the Deliberate Rejection Exercise (DRE). Fantastic, I feel like the man. I’m back in the game. .. . I’ll elaborate in that some other time.. I need to take a good sleep first.

Women find me irresistible! And I love it!

I was out last night with some friends celebrating my birthday and at some point we split and 6 of us end up in the other side of town. While we were waiting for one the girls we were with to come back, we see two blondes coming down the street. So one of my friends tells me let’s go talk to them. I hesitate for a second, but fuck it and we walk up to them just as they just pass us by, each from one side. (I know it’s not the MM way of doing things, but we somehow did it in a casual way).

I open with something stupid, “we’re trying to do a conversation” or something like that. I couldn’t come up with something better on the spot. I immediately follow up with something in the range of “aren’t you afraid to walk alone at this late hour? There are all kinds of creeps that may want to hit on you” ironically. The one closer to me starts laughing and opens up. So we start talking. I tease them each time a get a chance. The conversation flows easily, though her twin sis isn’t as talkative. They tell me they’re coming a club where “nothing interesting happened.. at least not for me”. Isn’t that a subtle IOI?

We get to her house and the sis goes in, but the other stays a few more minutes. I ask her if she knows how to cook. She knows how to do fried potatoes and tomato salad. She now qualifies to be my wife, so I get into that role playing. I number close her and then we leave. I immediately send her a message “Oh you’re so in trouble! I walked you to your house and you didn’t even kissed me good night.”

I get back to my friends and realize I still have one champagne left. Something rings in my head and I call her.

Me: Hey, come out to drink a glass of champagne for my birthday.
Her: Are you serious?
Me: Yep. We were just celebrating.
Her: Well.. You want me to come out in pajamas?
Me: Well throw something on fast.
Her: Ok.. meet me in 5 minutes.

5 minutes later we’re in front of her house. She comes out and I immediately tease her for not bringing champagne glasses. So she goes in and gets them. So we sit down and toast in my honor. I tease her for agreeing to come out and drink champagne with two complete strangers. “What would your parents think about that?” She tells me the we came up as unthreatening and trustworthy. I explain her that it’s probably our extraordinary body language and go on and tell her how I find a woman with good body language much more attractive. She tells me something like “So you saw us two girls with good posture and you just had to talk to us?”. Wasn’t she just qualify herself to me right then? I did some more I got from MM “what do you want to be when you grow up? Besides a princes”. Etc. I do some short story telling.

We talk for about half an hour more, with some teasing here and there. She’s very easy to talk to. And damn cute. I’d rate her an 8.

I called her today. She doesn’t feel like going out. She says we’d better do it on Friday or Saturday. So I’ll call her then.

This was really easy. Although I haven’t done much PU lately, the parts I had internalized are still there and ready to be used.

This guy I was with is an old friend of mine. He’s got some issues, but with some training I could turn him into a great wing and we’d be unstoppable.

Man, this is becoming a depression blog, not a seduction blog. I’m fucking it up big big time because I don’t even approach girls anymore.

When I go out, I’m mostly in a bad mood and can’t get myself to approach. And that gets me depressed even more. It’s a fucking vicious circle and I have to stop it somehow.

Today, I went out feeling not too enthusiastic and had a little chat with a friend in a bar that depressed me even more. Interestingly, when I got into a club, my mood immediately changed and I started feeling good. Maybe it was the music, or the fact that the club was full of people.

I didn’t approach any girl though. When I left, I meet another buddy and we go to another club. Man, this club is gold. I don’t think there is another place with more hot chicks than here in this town.

Interestingly, one girl started hitting on me. But I wasn’t ready for that and I fucked it up.

So, next week I’ve got myself a really cool club I have to hit. The girls there will love me.

Hey, happy new year everybody. I should have written some reports earlier, but I’ve been either too busy, too tired or god damn lazy.

On new years I went to an out of town party. It was fantastic. Lots of women. I wan’t too comfortable at first, but then I noticed that the others weren’t very comfortable either. So I pretty much started acting like the party host.

I was teasing girls left and right. I was spitting out all sorts of cocky and funny lines. It was incredible.

I ran a few of Style’s routines on a 10th grade girl. She loved them. I’m definite I could have gotten a makeout with her. But, I hesitate on that and the moment was lost.

I got another one to paint my nails black. I was teasing her all this time, and she started hitting on me adterwards and I almost got a makeout.

Well, there were more interesting things that happened, I don’t feel like writing right now.

The greatest mistake I did was that I got involved in a drinking game. That sucked. We got drunk like shit.

Well, a new year has come. No more alcohol for me in 2007. And fuck stupid AFC friends again. I think I’m going to hang out mostly with girls from now on.

Ok, following my previous post, I actually have something to report.

I was watching Style’s videos and gathered some routines, of which, I particularly loved the cologne opener. I just got a new cologne from Santa, and I had to try the opener. I have another cologne.  So I sprinkle each on a wrist, take a pen, make two Xs on each wrist and head to a closest club. Without the AFC friends of course.

It’s Christmas night, the club is like paradise.  I walk in, and right out of nowhere one of my ex.’s walks up to me. I run this routine on her (it’s fun actually, not only as an opener) and works fantastic. When I pull out the pen and make a marking on the wrist she chose, she burst in laughing. Haha. I move around the club, and I open a two set (really hot) but I come off s creepy to one of the girls and she moves away. The other says that one, pointing to one of my wrists, without actually smelling it.

I leave the club, but come back in a half an hour and find a friend (female) who’s got table, so I get a beer (I shouldn’t have done that) and sit at her table.

I find out that nobody at this table knows each other that well. I kind out have a realization at this point. Style was mentioning that it doesn’t matter if you open a chick in a group of guys because they’re usually with family or coworkers, not necessarily with friends of a lifetime. Something similar here.

The “How do you all know each other” question is great. Makes you feel a lot more comfortable.

I get al of them talking and make good friends with one of the guys. He tells me that he’s been in the US and I ask him to tell me more about it. After what he’s told me, I don’t think I want to visit the states any time soon. Spooky.

I run the cologne routine on the girl I knew at the table (she was the only girl at the table at this point), and she gave me some interesting insights like the cologne on my right wrist smells of clean and she likes it more. But the other one is more intense and most chicks will chose it, because if a woman leaves with your shirt, she will want to feel your smell.

After some time, two chicks sit at our table right next to me (the brunette came with the guys that got the table). I run the same routine and each one chooses a different wrist. I ask them how they’ve know each other and they say they’re best friends. I do the best friends test, ask about the shampoo and they actually look to one another before they answer, but I mess it up and it comes a little weird because I let them answer and they I just “Yeah, you’re best friends”. They’re a little like ‘wtf was that’. But hey, it’s the first time I use this routine.

Later that night, I eventually open another girl with the cologne opener. The only approach that I can call and approach. She gives me her opinion, I say thank you and leave.

I love this opener. It’s not that difficult and with some practice, I can become perfect.

The only problem is that the clubs here are filled with cigar smoke and after a few hours the cologne smell goes away.

Hmm, I noticed I still have issues with the “I just did that on her and now she’ll see me do it on other chicks” thought. It’s all just practice, so screw it. Who care if they see me.

That’s about it for now. But, this holiday I’m going out every night to catch up. So, there’ll be more FRs and of higher quality this season.

Last week, I haven’t written any report. I was just too busy.

This week, I went out Friday, but did nothing. I met a few friends and played cards with some girls. I think I have oneitis for another girl which I should have been with log time ago. She was attracted to me and she actually wanted us to have a relationship, but I screwed it up. My material sucked .  Now, two years later, she’s turned out a hottie and damn, I’d like to do her. Fuck it, it’s not that much of a big deal. It’s not that bad of a oneitis. I don’t care about it, I just regret that I didn’t do my job when I should have.

I just came home. I went out with a buddy to a bar and player backgammon with another friend. Then we went to a club (we were about 6-7 guys). We get a table. I move around the club for a while. 3 seconds rule… no such thing.

I eventually open a blonde. An 7.5 or 8. I use my already internalized “would you like to kiss me” opener. I bring other girls around her into the chat, complaining in a funny way to them that she doesn’t want to kiss me (I make sure she can hear that). I ask them to help me convince her to kiss me. Then, I tell her to at least ask one of her friends to kiss me. She asks her sister, but she doesn’t want to. I tell her to ask another friend, but she tells me she doesn’t have any friend here. I insist on the kiss, asking if she’s 100% certain she doesn’t want to.

She is very open, laughing and I think (at least) a little attracted to me.

I leave her, but I come back in 5 minutes asking her if she changed her mind. I try to play fuck merry kill, but she doesn’t cooperate, so I explain her the game so I can play. She points out three girls, but the game doesn’t come out as funny as it should have. She asks, what the game is supposed to do. I tell her it’s just a silly, funny game. I do the esp rutine, get the first number right, but do the second part of the routine wrong, so I get the second number wrong. I think I ran another routine, but can’t remember which it was.

I ask her if she’s got a phone. She says “Yes. I’m not giving it to you though.” I insist a little, but she doesn’t give in. I chat for another minute or so and I leave, planning to come back to her in a few minutes and resume that game.

Eventually, I see two guys hitting on her and her sister, with much more kino and they seem to have more success than me. So I give up.

Meanwhile, two girls are dancing together, of which I knew one. I go to and ask her to tell her friend to kiss me. She’s laughing, but no, “she’s got a boyfriend.” I tell her he won’t find out. “I know her too well and I’m certain she won’t do it”. Then I just talk to the friend in question. They both get a good laugh. I eventually get a cheek kiss from her. I leave satisfied, although I wanted something else.

I opened two other girls, but their bitch shields were so up. Haha, they told me to get lost or something like that, with a demonic look on their face. Haha, what a sight.

Man, I’ve been telling myself hundreds of time to give up on this opener and move to something more indirect. I did them, but this one is just to easy and I’m a lot more comfortable doing it than elvis or the two part kiss opener. But I’ve got to take it to the next lever, I’m getting bored.

Haha, I’ve got to move to more advanced stuff. This “Would you like to kiss me” in getting old. Somehow, I don’t find it as interesting as asking for blowouts, or proposing random chicks. Sometimes I find myself living in the past, remembering the fun I had this spring and summer with these openers. Oh, those were the times…

Ok, enough with that.

Yesterday, I went out at that stinkin’ bar. Met some friends, drank a beer and then we all went to another club. We eventually find a free table (some buddies were holding it for us). I drink another beer (damit!).

Then I just start walking around the club, asking random chicks for kisses. Again, approaching chicks is so easy! This time, I didn’t feel that intense approach anxiety that I had in the past. It was very low this time.

Great fun. I didn’t get any kiss, just a few cheek kisses, from 8+ chicks. Man I love women.

Persistence is key. They ignored me at first, I moved on. A while later, I was back to them asking if they changed their mind. If not, I would come back again in a 10or so minutes. Eventually, they would give in.

There was one who simply blew me off by ignoring me. One of my AFC friends (I came with him) saw this. He knew her, so he was now acting like he was the man and I was a loser because “a fucked up girl like that” turned her back to me. Fucker, he’ll never understand the point of the whole thing. I feel bad for him. I tried a few times to explain him how things work in this world. He doesn’t want to understand.

What I realized during these “would you like kiss me” sessions is that it’s impossible not to have a big smile and be joyful when approaching women. In the past, I couldn’t understand this idea, thinking that I would have to fake a smile, and I can’t do that. But now that I field tested this, it comes very natural. And it’s a good strategy to back off any potential dangerous situations.

For instance, yesterday, I approached a two girls which I was almost certain that they were with their BFs at the club. But hey, there was a shortage of chicks in the venue, so I had to risk getting my ass kicked. Well, I opened them with my ‘kiss’ line and they looked back at their BFs almost asking them too kick my ass. But they immediately realized that I had this huge smile and I couldn’t possibly be serious. I was just having fun, and they got my vibe and immediately changed their attitude and become friendly and joyful, and blew me out in a sweet way.

Haha, I love the simplicity of this opener. Too bad I almost got my ass kicked because of it yesterday.

So I went yesterday at the junior prom of another high school here in town, and for the first half an hour or so, I don’t do much. A girl opens me and I find out she’s in the same class with some friends of mine. Well, Thanks to her, I manage to sneak another buddy of mine in (the one who did his birthday two days ago).

We drink a beer and he tells me that 2 in 5 girls there must surely know about the_orion (his nickname). So I want to prove him wrong and start asking girls left and right whether they know anything about this guy. Very fun. In total, I don’t know. Somewhere between 10-15. None knew him lol.

After that, we stay a little and have fun amongst ourselves, then I tell him I’ll give him some money if I don’t walk up to girls and ask for a kiss. Cool, so I start asking that. When they would say no, I’d say “At least on the cheek”. Some would give that to me, some would not.

At some point, a guy walks up to me and asks me what I’m trying to do. I tell him I’m asking these girls to kiss me on the cheek. (There are two different words in Romanian for ‘Kiss’ and a ‘Cheek Kiss’). So the guy tells me, “ Some of these girls have boyfriends and may get in trouble. If you would have asked for a ‘cheek kiss’, they would have certainly given you one.”

So, I start asking for cheek kisses so that I don’t come across so direct.

In total, I get about 25-30 cheek kisses. With the ones that didn’t want to kiss me on the spot, I’d come back the them after a few minutes and of course, they eventually kissed me.

I could have gone further with some of these girl, but that wasn’t my purpose. I regret that I don’t remember what was the name of the hottest girls there and that I didn’t get her number. Oh well.

Towards the end, I see a girl giving me a powerful EC so I walk up to her and ask for a kiss. She doesn’t want to so I leave, but her stupid fucked up jealous bf comes after me and grabs me, asking what I want from her. He tells me to apologize to her, or I’m getting my ass kicked. Funny thing is, I didn’t even remember who she was. So I eventually tell her sorry like I don’t really mean it, because the bastard was holding me from behind, and when I left, he slapped me in the back. I would have kicked the shit out of him at that point, but he was with his other buddies so I just left it at that.

Need to get some martial arts training. I’ll do that next year.

Ouch, it kind of hurts to go on Technorati and see that you haven’t updated your blog in 12 days…

Well, I haven’t done what I promised to do. Last week I haven’t approached any chick as far as I remember, but this week things are different.

First of all, I joined M00ney’s bootcamp on mASF. It’s pretty much like the old FS bootcamp. We’ll see how that goes.

But, most important, yesterday I pretty much overcome one of my old fears: Just walking up to a girl and asking for a kiss. Here’s the story:

Yesterday, one of my (AFC) friends was celebrating his birthday, at our usual (stinking) bar. I didn’t really want to go, but, hell; we’ve been friends for so long so I had to. The place turns out to be fairly cool, and I run into the girl I was talking in my junior prom field report. She gives me a bite on the neck and starts taking me pictures. Next I open a chick that I noticed months ago, but didn’t have the balls to talk to her then. And of course, have fun with the rest of the girls I knew.

After a few hours, we (my friends and I) go to another club, which stinks a lot less and has a lot more chicks. Well, I don’t do much until my friends leave home. Only I and Victor (complete AFC, but one who likes to dance) remain. So, I tell him that I would give him some money if I don’t go up a girl and ask her to kiss me.

After a little hesitation, I go to the chick with the biggest breasts in the club and ask her “would you want to kiss me?” Well, she doesn’t, but I broke the ice, so now that I’m an approach machine, I start walking up to random chicks and ask the same stuff. When I would walk up to a group, I’d ask “Which one of you wants to kiss me?”

Chicks are so much fun. After the first or second approach I started asking more questions, like “How well do you know to kiss. From 1 to 10, how good a kisser are you? …so that I know whether I lost something.” Some didn’t know, other said thay didn’t know to kiss at all, and one was so confident that she was a 10+. Some chicks were more fun than others. One was in a cocky and funny mode and I loved taking to her.

It’s been great!

Well, I didn’t get any kiss. But I proved myself once more that approaching chicks is fun and easy.

In total, I thing I approached about 11-12 sets. Very nice!

What I regret is that I drank alcohol. But, maybe that’s the reason I achieved that in the first place. But my goal is to get the skill set to successfully approach and pickup chicks sober. I don’t even like alcohol, but it was my friend’s birthday, so an exception once in a while can’t be that bad.