Venusian Log - A Future PUA’s Seduction Journal

Haha, I’ve got to move to more advanced stuff. This “Would you like to kiss me” in getting old. Somehow, I don’t find it as interesting as asking for blowouts, or proposing random chicks. Sometimes I find myself living in the past, remembering the fun I had this spring and summer with these openers. Oh, those were the times…

Ok, enough with that.

Yesterday, I went out at that stinkin’ bar. Met some friends, drank a beer and then we all went to another club. We eventually find a free table (some buddies were holding it for us). I drink another beer (damit!).

Then I just start walking around the club, asking random chicks for kisses. Again, approaching chicks is so easy! This time, I didn’t feel that intense approach anxiety that I had in the past. It was very low this time.

Great fun. I didn’t get any kiss, just a few cheek kisses, from 8+ chicks. Man I love women.

Persistence is key. They ignored me at first, I moved on. A while later, I was back to them asking if they changed their mind. If not, I would come back again in a 10or so minutes. Eventually, they would give in.

There was one who simply blew me off by ignoring me. One of my AFC friends (I came with him) saw this. He knew her, so he was now acting like he was the man and I was a loser because “a fucked up girl like that” turned her back to me. Fucker, he’ll never understand the point of the whole thing. I feel bad for him. I tried a few times to explain him how things work in this world. He doesn’t want to understand.

What I realized during these “would you like kiss me” sessions is that it’s impossible not to have a big smile and be joyful when approaching women. In the past, I couldn’t understand this idea, thinking that I would have to fake a smile, and I can’t do that. But now that I field tested this, it comes very natural. And it’s a good strategy to back off any potential dangerous situations.

For instance, yesterday, I approached a two girls which I was almost certain that they were with their BFs at the club. But hey, there was a shortage of chicks in the venue, so I had to risk getting my ass kicked. Well, I opened them with my ‘kiss’ line and they looked back at their BFs almost asking them too kick my ass. But they immediately realized that I had this huge smile and I couldn’t possibly be serious. I was just having fun, and they got my vibe and immediately changed their attitude and become friendly and joyful, and blew me out in a sweet way.

Haha, I love the simplicity of this opener. Too bad I almost got my ass kicked because of it yesterday.

So I went yesterday at the junior prom of another high school here in town, and for the first half an hour or so, I don’t do much. A girl opens me and I find out she’s in the same class with some friends of mine. Well, Thanks to her, I manage to sneak another buddy of mine in (the one who did his birthday two days ago).

We drink a beer and he tells me that 2 in 5 girls there must surely know about the_orion (his nickname). So I want to prove him wrong and start asking girls left and right whether they know anything about this guy. Very fun. In total, I don’t know. Somewhere between 10-15. None knew him lol.

After that, we stay a little and have fun amongst ourselves, then I tell him I’ll give him some money if I don’t walk up to girls and ask for a kiss. Cool, so I start asking that. When they would say no, I’d say “At least on the cheek”. Some would give that to me, some would not.

At some point, a guy walks up to me and asks me what I’m trying to do. I tell him I’m asking these girls to kiss me on the cheek. (There are two different words in Romanian for ‘Kiss’ and a ‘Cheek Kiss’). So the guy tells me, “ Some of these girls have boyfriends and may get in trouble. If you would have asked for a ‘cheek kiss’, they would have certainly given you one.”

So, I start asking for cheek kisses so that I don’t come across so direct.

In total, I get about 25-30 cheek kisses. With the ones that didn’t want to kiss me on the spot, I’d come back the them after a few minutes and of course, they eventually kissed me.

I could have gone further with some of these girl, but that wasn’t my purpose. I regret that I don’t remember what was the name of the hottest girls there and that I didn’t get her number. Oh well.

Towards the end, I see a girl giving me a powerful EC so I walk up to her and ask for a kiss. She doesn’t want to so I leave, but her stupid fucked up jealous bf comes after me and grabs me, asking what I want from her. He tells me to apologize to her, or I’m getting my ass kicked. Funny thing is, I didn’t even remember who she was. So I eventually tell her sorry like I don’t really mean it, because the bastard was holding me from behind, and when I left, he slapped me in the back. I would have kicked the shit out of him at that point, but he was with his other buddies so I just left it at that.

Need to get some martial arts training. I’ll do that next year.

Ouch, it kind of hurts to go on Technorati and see that you haven’t updated your blog in 12 days…

Well, I haven’t done what I promised to do. Last week I haven’t approached any chick as far as I remember, but this week things are different.

First of all, I joined M00ney’s bootcamp on mASF. It’s pretty much like the old FS bootcamp. We’ll see how that goes.

But, most important, yesterday I pretty much overcome one of my old fears: Just walking up to a girl and asking for a kiss. Here’s the story:

Yesterday, one of my (AFC) friends was celebrating his birthday, at our usual (stinking) bar. I didn’t really want to go, but, hell; we’ve been friends for so long so I had to. The place turns out to be fairly cool, and I run into the girl I was talking in my junior prom field report. She gives me a bite on the neck and starts taking me pictures. Next I open a chick that I noticed months ago, but didn’t have the balls to talk to her then. And of course, have fun with the rest of the girls I knew.

After a few hours, we (my friends and I) go to another club, which stinks a lot less and has a lot more chicks. Well, I don’t do much until my friends leave home. Only I and Victor (complete AFC, but one who likes to dance) remain. So, I tell him that I would give him some money if I don’t go up a girl and ask her to kiss me.

After a little hesitation, I go to the chick with the biggest breasts in the club and ask her “would you want to kiss me?” Well, she doesn’t, but I broke the ice, so now that I’m an approach machine, I start walking up to random chicks and ask the same stuff. When I would walk up to a group, I’d ask “Which one of you wants to kiss me?”

Chicks are so much fun. After the first or second approach I started asking more questions, like “How well do you know to kiss. From 1 to 10, how good a kisser are you? …so that I know whether I lost something.” Some didn’t know, other said thay didn’t know to kiss at all, and one was so confident that she was a 10+. Some chicks were more fun than others. One was in a cocky and funny mode and I loved taking to her.

It’s been great!

Well, I didn’t get any kiss. But I proved myself once more that approaching chicks is fun and easy.

In total, I thing I approached about 11-12 sets. Very nice!

What I regret is that I drank alcohol. But, maybe that’s the reason I achieved that in the first place. But my goal is to get the skill set to successfully approach and pickup chicks sober. I don’t even like alcohol, but it was my friend’s birthday, so an exception once in a while can’t be that bad.