Venusian Log - A Future PUA’s Seduction Journal

Mystery, the world’s greatest pickup artist, came up with the most important rule of the game: the “3 Seconds Rule”.

It is the simplest and yet the most important rule when it come to approaching a new group of women. If you can’t do the 3 seconds rule, you cannot move further into the pickup.

It is the most effective weapon we have against approach anxiety. If you act in 3 seconds after spotting a women, you don’t have time to think of what could go wrong, what if she won’t like you, what if this, what if that BS.

You’ve got to be reactionary. You see an approachable set, you go in! Cut off your “Wow, she’s beautiful” thoughts and just go talk to those girls.

3 seconds is usually just the right time you need to move close to your target and start delivering your opener.

As Mystery writes in his “Venusian Arts Handbook”, you want to be in a set within three seconds of entering the venue. The first set you see, you open it. You aren’t working only this set, you are working the entire room. Being seen in a set makes you look like a social person, offering you social proof and makes your job of picking up the hottest women in the place easier.

You run your routines, then move to the next set.

Another reason why you want to open within three seconds is because it ads a natural spontaneity to your approach. A woman will sense if you’re working up the courage to approach her, so acting in 3 seconds will avoid that.

NOTE:

Mystery himself says that the approach is the most terrifying part of the pickup. Following the 3 seconds rule will be a daunting task. You will hate it.

But following it is the ONLY way to improve you game and ultimately, being able to have any women you want in your life.

Don’t brake the 3 Seconds Rule.