Venusian Log - A Future PUA’s Seduction Journal

That relationship fucked me up a little. Today I felt like shit, so I went out with an old friend, chatted a little in a bar. Then we head to the busiest club in the town. I eventually get a table and start doing the Deliberate Rejection Exercise (DRE). Fantastic, I feel like the man. I’m back in the game. .. . I’ll elaborate in that some other time.. I need to take a good sleep first.

Women find me irresistible! And I love it!

Hey, I’m still here. I haven’t posted much lately, I’ve been a little busy. I see the post below… the thing with the chick I PUd on my birthday didn’t really work out. I PUd some other girls meanwhile. Eventually, I got involved with a pretty cool chick. She loved me, but I kind of ran out of material.. and I did exaggerate with the C&F stuff. The big mistake I did was I let her talk about one of her ex friend/bf/whatever.. she’s confused about that herself. Well, every negative feeling she had about him was transferred to me and the whole shit blew up.

So mark my words, don’t ever let a girl talk her ex BFs. You’re shooting yourself in the foot with that. A C&F way to avoid that is “If you want me to become your therapist, I’m gonna charge you 200$ an hour… and you have to be lying on a sofa”. Make sure you remember this line, ‘cause you never know when you’ll need it.

Anyway, I’m starting ElDiablo’ Bootcamp all over again, with a new set of recruits on Monday. It was really fun last year when ElDiablo himself led it, and that was pretty much the kick in the butt which helped me enjoy the best summer of my life. I launched a call to action on mASF to gather around more willing companions. If you’re interested in doing a bootcamp to get your ass moving, then drop a comment here and you’re in…

I’ll try to post a little more often, but I don’t promise anything.

I was out last night with some friends celebrating my birthday and at some point we split and 6 of us end up in the other side of town. While we were waiting for one the girls we were with to come back, we see two blondes coming down the street. So one of my friends tells me let’s go talk to them. I hesitate for a second, but fuck it and we walk up to them just as they just pass us by, each from one side. (I know it’s not the MM way of doing things, but we somehow did it in a casual way).

I open with something stupid, “we’re trying to do a conversation” or something like that. I couldn’t come up with something better on the spot. I immediately follow up with something in the range of “aren’t you afraid to walk alone at this late hour? There are all kinds of creeps that may want to hit on you” ironically. The one closer to me starts laughing and opens up. So we start talking. I tease them each time a get a chance. The conversation flows easily, though her twin sis isn’t as talkative. They tell me they’re coming a club where “nothing interesting happened.. at least not for me”. Isn’t that a subtle IOI?

We get to her house and the sis goes in, but the other stays a few more minutes. I ask her if she knows how to cook. She knows how to do fried potatoes and tomato salad. She now qualifies to be my wife, so I get into that role playing. I number close her and then we leave. I immediately send her a message “Oh you’re so in trouble! I walked you to your house and you didn’t even kissed me good night.”

I get back to my friends and realize I still have one champagne left. Something rings in my head and I call her.

Me: Hey, come out to drink a glass of champagne for my birthday.
Her: Are you serious?
Me: Yep. We were just celebrating.
Her: Well.. You want me to come out in pajamas?
Me: Well throw something on fast.
Her: Ok.. meet me in 5 minutes.

5 minutes later we’re in front of her house. She comes out and I immediately tease her for not bringing champagne glasses. So she goes in and gets them. So we sit down and toast in my honor. I tease her for agreeing to come out and drink champagne with two complete strangers. “What would your parents think about that?” She tells me the we came up as unthreatening and trustworthy. I explain her that it’s probably our extraordinary body language and go on and tell her how I find a woman with good body language much more attractive. She tells me something like “So you saw us two girls with good posture and you just had to talk to us?”. Wasn’t she just qualify herself to me right then? I did some more I got from MM “what do you want to be when you grow up? Besides a princes”. Etc. I do some short story telling.

We talk for about half an hour more, with some teasing here and there. She’s very easy to talk to. And damn cute. I’d rate her an 8.

I called her today. She doesn’t feel like going out. She says we’d better do it on Friday or Saturday. So I’ll call her then.

This was really easy. Although I haven’t done much PU lately, the parts I had internalized are still there and ready to be used.

This guy I was with is an old friend of mine. He’s got some issues, but with some training I could turn him into a great wing and we’d be unstoppable.

Man, this is becoming a depression blog, not a seduction blog. I’m fucking it up big big time because I don’t even approach girls anymore.

When I go out, I’m mostly in a bad mood and can’t get myself to approach. And that gets me depressed even more. It’s a fucking vicious circle and I have to stop it somehow.

Today, I went out feeling not too enthusiastic and had a little chat with a friend in a bar that depressed me even more. Interestingly, when I got into a club, my mood immediately changed and I started feeling good. Maybe it was the music, or the fact that the club was full of people.

I didn’t approach any girl though. When I left, I meet another buddy and we go to another club. Man, this club is gold. I don’t think there is another place with more hot chicks than here in this town.

Interestingly, one girl started hitting on me. But I wasn’t ready for that and I fucked it up.

So, next week I’ve got myself a really cool club I have to hit. The girls there will love me.

Hey, happy new year everybody. I should have written some reports earlier, but I’ve been either too busy, too tired or god damn lazy.

On new years I went to an out of town party. It was fantastic. Lots of women. I wan’t too comfortable at first, but then I noticed that the others weren’t very comfortable either. So I pretty much started acting like the party host.

I was teasing girls left and right. I was spitting out all sorts of cocky and funny lines. It was incredible.

I ran a few of Style’s routines on a 10th grade girl. She loved them. I’m definite I could have gotten a makeout with her. But, I hesitate on that and the moment was lost.

I got another one to paint my nails black. I was teasing her all this time, and she started hitting on me adterwards and I almost got a makeout.

Well, there were more interesting things that happened, I don’t feel like writing right now.

The greatest mistake I did was that I got involved in a drinking game. That sucked. We got drunk like shit.

Well, a new year has come. No more alcohol for me in 2007. And fuck stupid AFC friends again. I think I’m going to hang out mostly with girls from now on.

Ok, following my previous post, I actually have something to report.

I was watching Style’s videos and gathered some routines, of which, I particularly loved the cologne opener. I just got a new cologne from Santa, and I had to try the opener. I have another cologne.  So I sprinkle each on a wrist, take a pen, make two Xs on each wrist and head to a closest club. Without the AFC friends of course.

It’s Christmas night, the club is like paradise.  I walk in, and right out of nowhere one of my ex.’s walks up to me. I run this routine on her (it’s fun actually, not only as an opener) and works fantastic. When I pull out the pen and make a marking on the wrist she chose, she burst in laughing. Haha. I move around the club, and I open a two set (really hot) but I come off s creepy to one of the girls and she moves away. The other says that one, pointing to one of my wrists, without actually smelling it.

I leave the club, but come back in a half an hour and find a friend (female) who’s got table, so I get a beer (I shouldn’t have done that) and sit at her table.

I find out that nobody at this table knows each other that well. I kind out have a realization at this point. Style was mentioning that it doesn’t matter if you open a chick in a group of guys because they’re usually with family or coworkers, not necessarily with friends of a lifetime. Something similar here.

The “How do you all know each other” question is great. Makes you feel a lot more comfortable.

I get al of them talking and make good friends with one of the guys. He tells me that he’s been in the US and I ask him to tell me more about it. After what he’s told me, I don’t think I want to visit the states any time soon. Spooky.

I run the cologne routine on the girl I knew at the table (she was the only girl at the table at this point), and she gave me some interesting insights like the cologne on my right wrist smells of clean and she likes it more. But the other one is more intense and most chicks will chose it, because if a woman leaves with your shirt, she will want to feel your smell.

After some time, two chicks sit at our table right next to me (the brunette came with the guys that got the table). I run the same routine and each one chooses a different wrist. I ask them how they’ve know each other and they say they’re best friends. I do the best friends test, ask about the shampoo and they actually look to one another before they answer, but I mess it up and it comes a little weird because I let them answer and they I just “Yeah, you’re best friends”. They’re a little like ‘wtf was that’. But hey, it’s the first time I use this routine.

Later that night, I eventually open another girl with the cologne opener. The only approach that I can call and approach. She gives me her opinion, I say thank you and leave.

I love this opener. It’s not that difficult and with some practice, I can become perfect.

The only problem is that the clubs here are filled with cigar smoke and after a few hours the cologne smell goes away.

Hmm, I noticed I still have issues with the “I just did that on her and now she’ll see me do it on other chicks” thought. It’s all just practice, so screw it. Who care if they see me.

That’s about it for now. But, this holiday I’m going out every night to catch up. So, there’ll be more FRs and of higher quality this season.

Merry Christmas everybody!

What it’s been… Three weeks since my last report? Man I’ve been lazy. Actually, I’ve got (and still have) lots to study. And frankly, studying and getting to a good college is for me a top priority right now. As much as I’d like to be out in the field everyday practicing Pick Up, my financial future comes first.

BUT! Now it’s winter holiday and I’ve got a heck load more free time, so now I can go out every night. I still have to study during the day, but there’s no more boring school to mess my life up.

So, what I’ve done this holiday so far… Not much actually, but it’s worth telling the story anyway.

On Sunday night, I go with two buddies to a club. Man, every college student in this city came back home for holidays and now the little boring town is jam packed with people. The club we’re in is also at full capacity. I see this and I’m like in paradise. I move around to see who I know and maybe get a table. I meet some friends, talk a little with them. Great fun.

I don’t find a free table though, and the guys I came with are starting to get bored and ask me to leave. How the hell can I leave when I’m sitting on a gold mine like this, with all these hot chicks? DAMN! I eventually leave with these ‘buddies’. I don’t even know why I came out with them.

Fuck man, I’m sick of them screwing up my plans. They don’t really share my enthusiasm for pick up. Every time I’m out with them at a club, they’re like “Man, it’s boring. Let’s go somewhere else”. And of course, when we go somewhere else, they don’t do shit and it’s still boring and I hate it!

So, I hope I learned my lesson for good this time about hanging out with AFC friends. They really drag you down. And they don’t even want to see you succeed (as I wrote in another report). As long as you’re making your friends feel good about their pathetic life, you’re best friends. But as soon as you start evolve and change to a better person, while they continue to do their stuff, man, you’re gonna lose them. Style was right in this issue.

I need to find some friends who are on the same path. I actually have two of them. They were the ones who actually introduced me to pickupguide.com and the fantastic seduction material out there. I’ve been best friends with one of them, but our relationship kind of died off because of one of my AFC friends. It’s a long story, but damn, these fuckers are screwing up my life in every aspect. I really need to get rid of them.

So, while I was hanging out with my AFCs, my good old PUA friends continued to evolve and now they’re god damn PUAs with lots of chicks and living a playboy life. And I’m still struggling at the ‘opening’ part.

Screw them AFCs, I’m not going out with them anymore.

Last week, I haven’t written any report. I was just too busy.

This week, I went out Friday, but did nothing. I met a few friends and played cards with some girls. I think I have oneitis for another girl which I should have been with log time ago. She was attracted to me and she actually wanted us to have a relationship, but I screwed it up. My material sucked .  Now, two years later, she’s turned out a hottie and damn, I’d like to do her. Fuck it, it’s not that much of a big deal. It’s not that bad of a oneitis. I don’t care about it, I just regret that I didn’t do my job when I should have.

I just came home. I went out with a buddy to a bar and player backgammon with another friend. Then we went to a club (we were about 6-7 guys). We get a table. I move around the club for a while. 3 seconds rule… no such thing.

I eventually open a blonde. An 7.5 or 8. I use my already internalized “would you like to kiss me” opener. I bring other girls around her into the chat, complaining in a funny way to them that she doesn’t want to kiss me (I make sure she can hear that). I ask them to help me convince her to kiss me. Then, I tell her to at least ask one of her friends to kiss me. She asks her sister, but she doesn’t want to. I tell her to ask another friend, but she tells me she doesn’t have any friend here. I insist on the kiss, asking if she’s 100% certain she doesn’t want to.

She is very open, laughing and I think (at least) a little attracted to me.

I leave her, but I come back in 5 minutes asking her if she changed her mind. I try to play fuck merry kill, but she doesn’t cooperate, so I explain her the game so I can play. She points out three girls, but the game doesn’t come out as funny as it should have. She asks, what the game is supposed to do. I tell her it’s just a silly, funny game. I do the esp rutine, get the first number right, but do the second part of the routine wrong, so I get the second number wrong. I think I ran another routine, but can’t remember which it was.

I ask her if she’s got a phone. She says “Yes. I’m not giving it to you though.” I insist a little, but she doesn’t give in. I chat for another minute or so and I leave, planning to come back to her in a few minutes and resume that game.

Eventually, I see two guys hitting on her and her sister, with much more kino and they seem to have more success than me. So I give up.

Meanwhile, two girls are dancing together, of which I knew one. I go to and ask her to tell her friend to kiss me. She’s laughing, but no, “she’s got a boyfriend.” I tell her he won’t find out. “I know her too well and I’m certain she won’t do it”. Then I just talk to the friend in question. They both get a good laugh. I eventually get a cheek kiss from her. I leave satisfied, although I wanted something else.

I opened two other girls, but their bitch shields were so up. Haha, they told me to get lost or something like that, with a demonic look on their face. Haha, what a sight.

Man, I’ve been telling myself hundreds of time to give up on this opener and move to something more indirect. I did them, but this one is just to easy and I’m a lot more comfortable doing it than elvis or the two part kiss opener. But I’ve got to take it to the next lever, I’m getting bored.

Haha, I’ve got to move to more advanced stuff. This “Would you like to kiss me” in getting old. Somehow, I don’t find it as interesting as asking for blowouts, or proposing random chicks. Sometimes I find myself living in the past, remembering the fun I had this spring and summer with these openers. Oh, those were the times…

Ok, enough with that.

Yesterday, I went out at that stinkin’ bar. Met some friends, drank a beer and then we all went to another club. We eventually find a free table (some buddies were holding it for us). I drink another beer (damit!).

Then I just start walking around the club, asking random chicks for kisses. Again, approaching chicks is so easy! This time, I didn’t feel that intense approach anxiety that I had in the past. It was very low this time.

Great fun. I didn’t get any kiss, just a few cheek kisses, from 8+ chicks. Man I love women.

Persistence is key. They ignored me at first, I moved on. A while later, I was back to them asking if they changed their mind. If not, I would come back again in a 10or so minutes. Eventually, they would give in.

There was one who simply blew me off by ignoring me. One of my AFC friends (I came with him) saw this. He knew her, so he was now acting like he was the man and I was a loser because “a fucked up girl like that” turned her back to me. Fucker, he’ll never understand the point of the whole thing. I feel bad for him. I tried a few times to explain him how things work in this world. He doesn’t want to understand.

What I realized during these “would you like kiss me” sessions is that it’s impossible not to have a big smile and be joyful when approaching women. In the past, I couldn’t understand this idea, thinking that I would have to fake a smile, and I can’t do that. But now that I field tested this, it comes very natural. And it’s a good strategy to back off any potential dangerous situations.

For instance, yesterday, I approached a two girls which I was almost certain that they were with their BFs at the club. But hey, there was a shortage of chicks in the venue, so I had to risk getting my ass kicked. Well, I opened them with my ‘kiss’ line and they looked back at their BFs almost asking them too kick my ass. But they immediately realized that I had this huge smile and I couldn’t possibly be serious. I was just having fun, and they got my vibe and immediately changed their attitude and become friendly and joyful, and blew me out in a sweet way.